Friday, August 12, 2011

Bully prevention tips?

beat them up that's what i did when i was in middle school and getting ready to enter into High school. what you are going threw is not as bad as the bullies i had to deal with in school i'm s female and when i went to school on the way home on the bus everyday i would have a hat on and these two boy would put cookies on my head and then take a big math book and smash the cookies on my head and hey did this every day well one day i got sick of it so i beat the **** out of them i was a good fighter then after that they never pick on me again. when i went to school everyone pick on me because i was diferent i was a tom boy all threw middle school till i got up in high school.

How to let go of my fear of getting hurt?

im about to start my junior year of high school and i've never really had a boyfriend or my first kiss. everyone says they don't know why because they say im really pretty.(not trying to toot my own horn) i think i cant really get a date or a bf because my parents marriage was over when i was 7 but they stayed together till i was 14. i don't want a relationship to end up like there's. my friends say i'm afraid of that so i don't let people get that close. all i want is someone who makes me fee safe and i can be myself with. i'm only myself with my BEST friend. like i don't even know if i'm attractive (not trying to get compliments) i don't know what to do or how to let go of this fear. i'm so scared of being alone for the rest of my life.

Everybody ALWAYS stares at me..?

there probably sexually attracted to you. but once in a while, there maybe a guy that is very weird and fun, he may be on the ugly side, but what im saying is there's AALLLOOTTT of people out there that just want to have sex, but there's some people that like you for you, take up the opportunity and give em a shot, they may be amazing in a relationship...

I cant help that i get along with guys better then i do with girls, is that my problem?

iv said it before but i didnt get any real answers... iv always gotten along better with guys then i do with girls because girls are always bitching or spreading rumors, guys are laid back an good to hang with cause they would rather avoid drama... i have 7 brothers an majority of my friends are guys (without benefits) i live with 2 of my guy friends who are pretty much my bestfriends... my problem is, iv been single for 5mnths (havent been with anyone AT ALL) i was in a relationship for 2 an a half years so i feel un-experienced. dont get me wrong, i can still flirt an i get alot of compliments even when walking down the road i get cars tooting an people yelling (which is really annoying) thing is, the guys i like usually like someone else or end up seeing me as a friend. i dont tell them i live with guys, i dont tell them i have more guy friends then i do girls.... i used to be quiet an shy, i would just talk to guys an they would think im flirting.. now that iv come outa my shell its not that great, i attract jerks or playas, i even have a few guys (i saw as friends) that wont leave me alone, calling and texting all hours of the morning... why cant i just attract normal guys? what am i doing wrong? should i go back to being quiet an shy?

Liberals i need a good comeback?

I'm not a liberal, but I'll give you advice. You're best bet is to simply do research on Hamas and also find out why Israel attacked Hamas.

Do men strongly oppose feminists?

I fully respect and support feminism and equal treatment for women, and I fully disrespect the handful of "men" who object. However, I think some of the negative rep that feminism has comes from radicals and posers who don't "subscribe to" the concept so much as they use it as a platform to air thier laundry lists of personal baggage and/or and excuse for own hatred and maladjustment. That's unfortunately the case with any ideology, social political or spiritual.

What songs can I play at my multi-cultural wedding.?

I have gangster friends, cholo friends, family members that are almost like aristocrats... What songs (examples) can I play there to please all of them.? I won't play anything like "Toot It And Boot It".