I cant help that i get along with guys better then i do with girls, is that my problem?

iv said it before but i didnt get any real answers... iv always gotten along better with guys then i do with girls because girls are always bitching or spreading rumors, guys are laid back an good to hang with cause they would rather avoid drama... i have 7 brothers an majority of my friends are guys (without benefits) i live with 2 of my guy friends who are pretty much my bestfriends... my problem is, iv been single for 5mnths (havent been with anyone AT ALL) i was in a relationship for 2 an a half years so i feel un-experienced. dont get me wrong, i can still flirt an i get alot of compliments even when walking down the road i get cars tooting an people yelling (which is really annoying) thing is, the guys i like usually like someone else or end up seeing me as a friend. i dont tell them i live with guys, i dont tell them i have more guy friends then i do girls.... i used to be quiet an shy, i would just talk to guys an they would think im flirting.. now that iv come outa my shell its not that great, i attract jerks or playas, i even have a few guys (i saw as friends) that wont leave me alone, calling and texting all hours of the morning... why cant i just attract normal guys? what am i doing wrong? should i go back to being quiet an shy?